Sunday, 9 August 2015

Fleeting thoughts - Lasting memories

Fleeting thoughts
On 2nd August 2015, when I went for my regular consultation with the Preventive Diabetologist for blood sugar, she expressed that I should try to bring down my weight by 2 kgs., in 2 months' time. So I decided to add cycling to my exercise regime, the other being walking. As my thoughts went to my bi- cycling days in Tambaram, I suddenly realised the cyclical life style everyone spends from birth to death.

In climate, economics and business, we talk of cycles and their management. In our physical life have we noticed the cycle of life style  that each one  go through -- here it is .......

Carried ->Crawl -> walk (with holding hands )->Walk -> run -> tri- cycle -> bi-cycle (outdoors) -> 4 wheelers -> public transport, own car (drive)-> flight -> 4 wheelers -Car (driven), public transport-> cycle (indoor)-> walk (with sticks), wheel chair, and -> carried...

Lasting memories

Recent family functions connected with Raghu's 70th birthday, made Gopalaiyer clan from across East North, South and West India, as well as Southern and Northern hemisphere congregate in Mumbai. Such functions are far and few.  However, Gopalaiyer clan excel in such get togethers despite vicissitudes of life each one has.  Lot of gossip kindled the lasting memories embedded in everyone's mind. The common and underlying thoughts were time spent together by us in Tambaram and Alwarpet.
Any physical forms of memories - Letters, poems, greeting cards, photographs, gifts, mementos, albums etc., not even the present day digital forms - Emails -> facebook -> whatsapp ->google photos could capture these memories, so effectively.
When I was in London 14 years ago, I remember Natwest bank had advertised to attract customers " There is another way.  Face to face". There is no substitute for face to face get togethers and reliving our memories of past events.  If sufficient notice of such family functions is given, I am sure every one in Gopalaiyer clan would love to do so again and again. Who is giving the next opportunity?


Sekar.

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